by Pam Baldwin

Have you ever thought about what women are really looking for when it comes to a man? Most men probably never seriously consider this question. Women strive for improvement constantly in an effort to find and hold on to a man, but men are not doing anything to figure out what would make women happy.

With so many different types of women out there, it is not surprising that each one has her own thoughts about what qualities the perfect man would possess. Each is looking for that special combination, but there are many traits that every woman appreciates.

Good looks are usually nice, but not the most important thing. After all, how many times have you seen a gorgeous woman with an average looking guy? Didn’t you always wonder why? It’s because those men more than make up for their less than perfect physical attributes with a winning combination of confidence, charm, and personality. They are able to give women what they truly want.

Any man who has respect for himself will most likely have respect for his woman, and many women consider respect extremely important. In addition, a confident man tends to be happy, and that will often mean that his woman will be happy as well. The gift of being charming is also important when wooing a woman. Tacky pickup lines and crude attempts at humor are not the way to get someone to fall in love with you.

While you should always put in a concerted effort, don’t try too hard. Be a good listener, and when you ask her questions, actually pay attention to the answers. Women like to know they are being heard. When you pay attention to what your woman is saying, you are more able to know what she wants and needs. So the next time you are deep in conversation with a woman, try to think of what she really wants in a man, and you will be more likely to remember what she is saying.

One way to find out what woman really want from a man is through online dating. There are many websites dedicated to this task, and many of them do not cost any money. An advantage to meeting someone this way is that in order to sign up, a questionnaire must be completed, which provides a list of likes and dislikes that you can compare yourself to. If, however, this way of meeting someone makes you uncomfortable, you’ll just have to do things the old-fashioned way and find out this kind of information for yourself.

You must constantly be willing to show your affection. If she has to wonder whether or not you care about her, she will be unhappy and arguments will arise. It is not true that women just like to argue. Almost all arguments can be avoided with a little effort.

Try and compare women to flowers – delicate and in need of nurturing. Take care of a woman, and she will bloom into someone even more beautiful. Neglect will cause a flower or a woman to wilt, so show your appreciation daily. Small gestures go a long way, and a compliment at just the right time will always make her smile. Remember, if your woman is always smiling, you can be sure you are what she truly wants.

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