by Pauline Stradlen

Write down everything you find that you think might be even slightly incriminating. Don’t think that you will be able to remember everything, you are under enough stress as it is without having to keep all the information in your mind.

It is important that you keep track of all suspicious activities, note down the dates and times. For example does your husband regularly go to the gym? When he gets home check to see if his towel is wet -in other words has he had a shower. It will be easier for you to track patterns in his behaviour if you have all of this on paper.

It is important that you pay extremely close attention to all the things your husband says or does on a day-to-day basis, and make notes about it. You may think we have noticed a new or modified behaviour one day, but you are not really sure of yourself. If you are keeping note of all this you will be 100% sure that you are correct.

It is completely up to you how far you want to look into your husband’s personal life. Some people believe there are certain boundaries that should not be crossed, but it is up to you to do whatever you feel comfortable with. Remember that if he is cheating the end will always justify the means.

One very important thing to keep an eye on is your phone bill, if you start noticing numbers that you do not recognize you should be very wary of what your partner is up to. All too often the simple mistake of calling their new girlfriend/boyfriend is what catches them out in the end.

When you finally track down that tangible, physical evidence, take note of exactly how and where you found it. Ensure that you don’t leave any evidence of your investigation behind, make copies of all important paper work or emails and leave the originals as you found them. You do not want to arouse your husbands suspicions until you are ready to confront him. Keep all you evidence in a safe place preferably out of the house.

If you think you are ready to confront your husband, and hands all the evidence you need, make sure you plan it properly. Have all the accusations and evidence in front of you, make notes and follow them. You must be sure that your case is watertight at this point, don’t confront him until you are confident he is cheating. This will be a very emotional time for both of you, and you should be ready for him to continue lying. You must be strong and you must be prepared.

Your intuition is a very powerful tool, remember to always follow it and it will lead you to the truth.

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