by Ricardo Daryans

Are there “magic” words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call. Cool huh? I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get from the over 35,000 subscribers just like you that are trying to put their relationship back together.

So I am going to answer “How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?” Yes, this can be done, but be warned! In our ebook, we lay out a complete strategy, not just some easy tricks that would fail in the long run. If you use this technique alone, without an overall plan or strategy you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call. Remember, this is about getting back your ex for a wonderful relationship and more.

Let’s start whit What NOT to Say. These are the usual mistakes people make, so don’t fall for them. Before we get into the actual words, let’s go over what message almost NEVER works. and worse, Puts you in an AWFUL ‘psychological’ position.These usually fall into 2 categories.

PLEAD. You get in the phone for the 10th time in the day and say “hi, please, please call me, I need to talk to you. I’ve called all day and haven’t got an answer form you”. Of course you are not going to get an answer! With this kind of call, you are only going to get pity, and pity will not help you get your ex back.

And the EMERGENCY-”Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this.” This is an awful way to try to get your ex attention. It may work the first time, if your ex thinks you are really in an emergency, but once the truth is discovered, you will be considered a liar and desperate. This is only going to get your ex farther from you.

These common approaches simply don’t work, or work opossed to what you want. If you really want your ex attention, there are methods much more effective. Let’s review a simple one.

Using curiosity and selft interest in your favor. The things humans can’t avoid are curiosity and self interest. This are powerful forces everybody reacts too. The big secret? combine the two and you will get a formula that works everytime!

Call your ex and say something like “Hello, it’s me. I just wanted to tell you that I really appreciate what you did for me. When you get the chance, give me a call so I can tell you personaly”. Can you see how this uses curiosity and self interest in one sweep? Your ex can’t resist calling you back! “What is it that I did?”, “Appreciates what?”, your ex will think. Also, it’s a positive message, so he/she will get in the phone for sure.

Ok, now you need to prepare what it is that your ex did that you appreciate. Surely you remember your good times with your ex, and there were moments when you received an advice or support in one form or another. Think about that and you have your setup ready for the date. Please remember that this is only the beginning. I want you to get back to yor ex, so this is only the first step.

With this simple method, you will have your ex calling you, but is only a part of a larger strategy. If you really want to get your ex back, you have to have a plan. You now can have a call and maybe a date. Now you have to work to get your ex back.

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